Both/And

A thirty-minute call each month, by phone or non-visual Zoom. Voice-to-voice, focused on what's most alive in your life right now. The patterns that are moving, the decisions that are surfacing, or maybe the thing you can only think through by saying it out loud.

UNLIMITED access to write to me in between. Text or email whenever something comes up, whether that's a dream, a rupture, a moment you can't make sense of, something that came to you at 2 am,

Response within the hour, dawn to 9 pm, seven days a week. No need to wait days for what needs interpretation now.

Someone who remembers your story, your patterns, your people, your losses, and all the symbols that keep returning. You never start over, and the next call builds on everything that surfaced in the writing between.

Pattern recognition across time. The connections you can't see when you're inside it. The thread from this week to something that happened three years ago, the reason this person appeared now, the shape of what's actually reorganizing, etc.

Interpretation, not advice. I don't tell you what to do. I tell you what's happening psychologically, symbolically, and in the deeper movement of your life, so you can move with it consciously.

Enter your bullet points here..

You already understand a lot, but understanding hasn't been enough to move what's actually moving.
You process in both directions. Some things you can only think through by saying them out loud, others you can only see once you write them down.
You're inside something (maybe a grief, a decision, a relationship, a health situation, or a transition) that doesn't reduce to a fix.
You dream vividly, feel things before they make sense, and carry meaning that most conversations flatten.
You want the anchor of a real conversation and the companionship of someone who can hold what surfaces in the days after.

BOTH/AND

The call anchors. The writing carries you between anchors. The next call builds on what surfaced in the ink. And nothing gets lost.

BOTH/AND is $333 a month, with a three-month minimum. After the three months, it can continue month-to-month for as long as it's serving you.

I take only a small number of these at a time. It's a lot of me in voice, writing, memory, and presence across the month, and I want to do it well.

If you were to build BOTH/AND from my other offerings (a monthly single-session call at $195, plus a month of UNLIMITED at $250), you'd be at $445 a month. BOTH/AND is $333. But the discount isn't the reason to choose it. The reason is the continuity. The call and the writing feed each other, so the work doesn't evaporate the moment the call ends.

If you'd rather write to me first to ask a question, describe what's happening, or feel out whether this is the right fit, you can reach me at jonni@drjonni.com. That's a welcome way to begin, too.

Hi. I'm Jonni.

I've worked as a transpersonal psychologist for more than thirty-five years with tens of thousands of clients, across nearly every kind of transition a person can walk through. Grief, diagnosis, the end of long marriages, the unravelling of long-held identities, the dreams that happen when a life is trying to reorganize itself.

What I do, at its simplest, is read what's actually happening in a person's life, the pattern under the story, the meaning underneath the moment, and reflect it back in language they can use.

Most of my clients aren't confused in the ordinary sense. They understand a great deal. What they can't do (because no one can, from inside their own life) is see the shape of what's moving in them. That's the work I do. I sit at the intersection of psychology and something older, and I stay there long enough to make out what your life is actually saying.

I'm not looking to grow an audience or fill a course. I work privately, with a small number of people, over long stretches of time. If you've found your way here, it's usually because someone who knows you thought you should.

I live on the Sunshine Coast in British Columbia, Canada, on two and a half acres with a creek, many gardens, three Indian Runner ducks, and a cat named Jack. The work is done in writing, by phone, and on Zoom. I've never needed anything else.

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